“How is it that we often forget that just because we think something, or someone has told us something, that it is true? How is it that we forget we have agency and that we can change our minds?”

Jennifer Pastiloff, On Being Human

Reflections

For years, I’ve told myself that I’m not well-spoken, that I don’t articulate my thoughts well in conversation. Holding this belief as truth has stifled my confidence and led to extreme self-doubt. I’ve become reluctant to speak with and in front of others, which has kept me from connecting socially and pursuing my professional goals.

“In order to be where you want to be, what do you need to let go of?” – Jennifer Pastiloff

I need to let go of this narrative. This false monologue that plays on repeat in my mind has become the bane of my existence. It’s holding me back, both personally and professionally.

The truth is, I am well-spoken, just not well-practiced in conversation. Over the past seven years, much of my time has been spent writing, playing with words and ideas on paper instead of in conversation. I’ve honed the skill of articulating my thoughts on paper; now it’s time to give voice to those same thoughts.

“Don’t die with your music still inside of you.” – Wayne Dyer

I want to be part of the conversation. I want to share my experience with others. I want to connect, face-to-face. If I want these things, I must let go of false beliefs so that I can sing my song out loud.